{"id":241,"date":"2007-08-17T16:49:00","date_gmt":"2007-08-17T16:49:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/laimayleng.com\/blog\/?p=241"},"modified":"2007-08-17T16:49:00","modified_gmt":"2007-08-17T16:49:00","slug":"youth","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.laimayleng.com\/blog\/youth\/","title":{"rendered":"Youth"},"content":{"rendered":"<div align=\"left\">&#8220;Miss, IC please&#8221; instructed the bouncer. I stared blankly at him, puzzled and felt rather insulted, at the edge of my twilight years, reaching the big 30, in 2 years time, this muscular, stern man demands for my identification. I was outraged, so I replied rather defensively. &#8220;Are you sure you want to check my identification ? I am very old ler.&#8221; &#8220;This is a strict bar, I&#8217;m sorry. I need to check your ID&#8221; he humbly replied.<\/p>\n<p>The queue was getting longer and I was creating an obvious bottle neck. Without further a due, I took out my wallet, dug out my ill looking identification card and reluctantly handed it to him. He took a good look at my photograph and blink at me, in contempt and said &#8220;You and I same age la. Enjoy the night, YOUNG LADY&#8221;. He snickered away.<\/p>\n<p>It must have been at least ten years ago I last partied in a bar\/disco till wee morning hours. I didn&#8217;t think I could afford a night like that. Age is just a number. Yes, I know. I can&#8217;t help feeling paranoid, especially when you walk down the bar and you see plenty of hot, young girls out there. Fortunately, I have friends who uplift my spirit with their kind, generous compliments, &#8220;May Leng, you look so young. You look like a student yourself!&#8221;. Sincere or merely humble words of comfort ? Does it matter ? I am thankful that I am reminded of my youth. Yet, another thoughtful reminder from &#8220;The One Above&#8221; via a book I&#8217;m currently reading;<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/4.bp.blogspot.com\/_M3iNL0ShtgM\/RsXQvxmRPfI\/AAAAAAAAAX8\/UidDFsZPbzg\/s1600-h\/standingproud28.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" id=\"BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5099711672253234674\" style=\"DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; CURSOR: hand; TEXT-ALIGN: center\" alt=\"\" src=\"http:\/\/4.bp.blogspot.com\/_M3iNL0ShtgM\/RsXQvxmRPfI\/AAAAAAAAAX8\/UidDFsZPbzg\/s320\/standingproud28.jpg\" border=\"0\" \/> <\/p>\n<p align=\"center\"><\/a> Me, standing proud at 28<\/p>\n<p><em>Anyone who stops learning is old, whether at twenty or eighty. Anyone who keeps learning stays young. The greatest thing in life is to keep your mind young.<\/em> <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8220;Miss, IC please&#8221; instructed the bouncer. I stared blankly at him, puzzled and felt rather insulted, at the edge of my twilight years, reaching the big 30, in 2 years time, this muscular, stern man demands for my identification. I was outraged, so I replied rather defensively. &#8220;Are you sure you want to check my [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[3],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-241","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-inner-thoughts","et-doesnt-have-format-content","et_post_format-et-post-format-standard"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.laimayleng.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/241","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.laimayleng.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.laimayleng.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.laimayleng.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.laimayleng.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=241"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.laimayleng.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/241\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.laimayleng.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=241"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.laimayleng.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=241"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.laimayleng.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=241"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}