{"id":295,"date":"2007-09-26T02:57:00","date_gmt":"2007-09-26T02:57:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/laimayleng.com\/blog\/?p=295"},"modified":"2007-09-26T02:57:00","modified_gmt":"2007-09-26T02:57:00","slug":"does-it-matter","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.laimayleng.com\/blog\/does-it-matter\/","title":{"rendered":"Does It Matter?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>A picture paints a thousand words. Does it matter what&#8217;s interpreted in the frame? I thought it did but sadly the reality is, it doesn&#8217;t.<\/p>\n<p>I realized the platonic truth through a recent experiment of mine. It all started when I joined a social portal and I&#8217;ve registered myself with the status &#8220;single&#8221;. &#8220;Why do you bother putting down the details in your profile? Nobody reads it anyway&#8221; my friend nudged me sarcastically online as I excitedly shared with her my new found web interest. My response to her was, &#8220;Well, it will matter to those who are keen to know my well being. It opens up an opportunity, an invitation so I may claim for a date. My optimism didn&#8217;t delight her.<\/p>\n<p><a onblur=\"try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}\" href=\"http:\/\/2.bp.blogspot.com\/_M3iNL0ShtgM\/Rvp41Pmx0JI\/AAAAAAAAAio\/6ziCYAChBPw\/s1600-h\/ml_hands_blog.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" style=\"margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer;\" src=\"http:\/\/2.bp.blogspot.com\/_M3iNL0ShtgM\/Rvp41Pmx0JI\/AAAAAAAAAio\/6ziCYAChBPw\/s320\/ml_hands_blog.jpg\" alt=\"\" id=\"BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5114533182950199442\" border=\"0\" \/><\/a>My curiosity got the better half of me. I plotted a plan. I uploaded a photo and changed my status to &#8220;Married&#8221; in Friendster.<\/p>\n<p><a onblur=\"try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}\" href=\"http:\/\/4.bp.blogspot.com\/_M3iNL0ShtgM\/Rvp5Evmx0KI\/AAAAAAAAAiw\/ttUiEAfon1k\/s1600-h\/friendster2.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" style=\"margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer;\" src=\"http:\/\/4.bp.blogspot.com\/_M3iNL0ShtgM\/Rvp5Evmx0KI\/AAAAAAAAAiw\/ttUiEAfon1k\/s400\/friendster2.jpg\" alt=\"\" id=\"BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5114533449238171810\" border=\"0\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\">One week passed. Nothing.<\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\">Please note that I have 134 friends.<\/div>\n<p><a onblur=\"try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}\" href=\"http:\/\/1.bp.blogspot.com\/_M3iNL0ShtgM\/RvnaDPmx0II\/AAAAAAAAAiY\/Eu7h56QH-FE\/s1600-h\/friendster.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" style=\"margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer;\" src=\"http:\/\/1.bp.blogspot.com\/_M3iNL0ShtgM\/RvnaDPmx0II\/AAAAAAAAAiY\/Eu7h56QH-FE\/s400\/friendster.jpg\" alt=\"\" id=\"BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5114358601119551618\" border=\"0\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\">Two weeks passed. No reaction still.<\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\">102 visitors looked at my profile.<\/p>\n<div style=\"text-align: left;\">Three weeks passed. And I&#8217;m STILL <span style=\"font-style: italic;\">married. <\/span>So, does it matter, whats on the photo or whats stated on my profile ? Not at all ! Lesson learned of the day.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-style: italic;\">Do not be worried about what others think of you, as most of the time, people don&#8217;t think much at all about you !<\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A picture paints a thousand words. Does it matter what&#8217;s interpreted in the frame? I thought it did but sadly the reality is, it doesn&#8217;t. I realized the platonic truth through a recent experiment of mine. 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