{"id":369,"date":"2007-12-04T16:14:00","date_gmt":"2007-12-04T16:14:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/laimayleng.com\/blog\/?p=369"},"modified":"2007-12-04T16:14:00","modified_gmt":"2007-12-04T16:14:00","slug":"my-first-time","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.laimayleng.com\/blog\/my-first-time\/","title":{"rendered":"My First Time"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\";font-family:arial;font-size:100%;\"  >The first time always hurts. So, I was warned but little did I expect the pain would be so intense. It all started with an innocent question, \u201cSo, I hear you do mountain biking?\u201d I prompted an old acquaintance. A simple yes landed me in Forest Research Institute Malaysia (FRIM) on the crisp morning of 25<sup>th<\/sup> November 2007.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a onblur=\"try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}\" href=\"http:\/\/3.bp.blogspot.com\/_M3iNL0ShtgM\/R1UJp1IkT2I\/AAAAAAAAArQ\/B5jg4yVu79g\/s1600-h\/article-853-1.gif\"><img decoding=\"async\" style=\"margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer;\" src=\"http:\/\/3.bp.blogspot.com\/_M3iNL0ShtgM\/R1UJp1IkT2I\/AAAAAAAAArQ\/B5jg4yVu79g\/s320\/article-853-1.gif\" alt=\"\" id=\"BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5140025163955588962\" border=\"0\" \/><\/a><span style=\";font-family:Arial,sans-serif;font-size:100%;\"  >Arriving at the car park, I was bursting in excitement. Trying to conceal my anticipation, I remained a composed posture but the truth was, I was dying to climb up on the two wheels. Delicately but carefully, the familiar face took the wheels off the car roof, I watched in glee. Once the wheels were on, I climbed up on my first mountain bike. It was horrible. The seat was too high for me. I struggled maintaining a balance with the bike. I was like a clown walking on stilts. My hands stretched far and my body plunged into a cat bend, I managed to cycle nevertheless. Clearly I was in discomfort, my old friend came to my rescue. He took his equipment out, a stick that looked somewhat like a pliers or screw. Being an oblivious woman with handy tools, I looked at the man meddling with his tools. He pulled the seat out and measured, sternly he said \u201cthat&#8217;s the lowest the seat post can do\u201d. With that I erupted a bold reply \u201c I told you I was short ! I always have trouble with the seat, even with my own bike at home.I even gave you my height measurements beforehand. Can you please do something about it \u201d I sulked in distress. Standing next to him was the owner of the loaned bike, \u201coh, this is a feisty one\u201d he blurted out. What a first impression I made to a new friend.<\/span><span style=\";font-family:Arial,sans-serif;font-size:100%;\"  ><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0in;\"><span style=\"font-family:Arial,sans-serif;\">I had no choice but to suck it up with the tormented posture. <i>Either that, or I don&#8217;t ride at all. I didn&#8217;t wake up at 5 am in the morning for nothing, <\/i>I thought to myself. I rode a few rounds, playing with the gears. I fell down a few times, as I wasn&#8217;t braking correctly. My feet was dangling in mid air, far too high for me to comfortably stop the wheels. Putting on his expert skilled hat, my old friend showed me how to shift the bike so I can make room for my feet to land correctly. I swing my legs around the seat post and my thighs hit the seat, again the seat was too high for me. By then, other bikers were arriving at the car park. I was turning red. I stood by the corner, hiding and practising my leg swing. \u201c&#8230;. can we swap your saddle \u201c a distant voice spoke. He came back with another saddle. He took the saddle off and slide it back into the frame. \u201cTry now\u201d he uttered. I climbed up and it was perfect ! I smiled gratefully. He walked off, to return the long saddle to the other kind biker and thanked him. I watched him from behind, standing tall and proud. <i>He saved a damsel in distress or he was just glad that the new saddle shut my whining, <\/i><span style=\"font-style: normal;\">the thought lingered on my mind.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0in; font-style: normal;\"><span style=\"font-family:Arial,sans-serif;\">I was very fortunate to have a quick crash course on safety biking. \u201cAlways remember, whatever happens, throw the bike away, save yourself. Your life is more valuable than the bike. Bike can always buy new one\u201d the owner of the loaned bike assured me. Somehow, I wasn&#8217;t convinced. With doubt, I asked \u201cHow much is the bike?\u201d My jaw dropped when I heard the reply, \u201cAbout 10K\u201d. My knees went weak, I almost fell off the bike. My expression gave in, I was sick worried to my gut. \u201cReally, its just a metal piece. The bike will survive but you won&#8217;t if you fall with the bike on top of you.\u201d he comforted me. I shrugged and said nothing.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0in; font-style: normal;\"><span style=\"font-family:Arial,sans-serif;\">The anticipation was building, riding on a 10K worth of solid frame. The moment came and the crowd gathered for an announcement. Making the statement probably the umptiempth time, the sweeper announced, \u201cthis is gonna be a short and simple ride. We ride up  steroid ..\u201d That word rang out loud, I was terrified but I embraced myself for an adventure. An adventure I never quite understand when I watched those extreme bikers hiked up the hills shown on AXN. What insanity drove them to take such risky sport? Here I am, joining the \u201cinsane\u201d activity I once frowned upon.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0in; font-style: normal;\">\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0in; font-style: normal;\"><span style=\"font-family:Arial,sans-serif;\">We started cycling, roughly in a group of 10. We cycled past the streets of floral shops. The morning flowers in pots were glowing. The beauty of the petals were enchanting, staying in focus on the road was a challenge for me. I wanted to stop and smell the flowers. I continued riding and soon we reached a path that seem to lead into the forest. I was told to wait. Waited I did for my \u201cbuddy\u201d rider.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0in; font-style: normal;\"><span style=\"font-family:Arial,sans-serif;\">The ride began. Up I went. It was rather unusual for me the first 15 minutes, as being a hiker I generally look around the surroundings, take my time to enjoy the view. However, I realized that riding on the bicycle I lost such luxury. I was tensed up with the bicycle, the 10K worth of metal frame. I held onto the handlebar as if my life depended on it. So much so, till I reached a cliff, it dawned upon me that my life indeed is dependent on the wheels. I felt fear, I tasted fear when I saw the cliff. The sensation was indescribable. Without much hesitation, I turned to my \u201cbuddy rider\u201d and said, \u201c My hospital card is in my wallet. Will you die if you fall into that cliff? \u201c Sarcastically, he replied \u201cYou won&#8217;t die. You just break a few bones\u201d. Faintly, I heard my heart stopped for a moment. We arrived at \u201csteroid hill\u201d. I was given two options, to ride up the hill like a man or take the easy path around the hill. Give up without trying ? I buckled up my courage along with my womanly manly ego and said \u201cI am riding up ! \u201c Admittedly, I was dying in pain and agony. The half an hour ride up the hill earlier must have busted my labia. I figured if its gonna hurt, I might as well die in glory. A dignified death.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0in; font-style: normal;\"><span style=\"font-family:Arial,sans-serif;\">I rode up hard.Willfully with each paddle, I found strength to do yet another yank. Halfway, I collapsed and I stopped for air. As I inhale the fresh air, I felt numb down under. I was immune to the pain. My feet took charged and I continued paddling. The adrenaline was rushing up, I was panting and gasping. Not realizing it, I was probably moaning in ecstasy. Finally, I climaxed and reached the top of the hill. I cycled up steroid hill, my first attempt and I survived.<br \/><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0in; font-style: normal;\"><span style=\"font-family:Arial,sans-serif;\">That was just the tip of the iceberg. Cycling down hill triggered yet another emotion. I learnt how to lift my butt high, this is so I can save my generations after. Bumping one stone after another, the bike flew up in the air.<\/p>\n<p><a onblur=\"try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}\" href=\"http:\/\/3.bp.blogspot.com\/_M3iNL0ShtgM\/R1WAQ1IkT4I\/AAAAAAAAArg\/CY-2mLfkiMw\/s1600-h\/cut.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" style=\"margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer;\" src=\"http:\/\/3.bp.blogspot.com\/_M3iNL0ShtgM\/R1WAQ1IkT4I\/AAAAAAAAArg\/CY-2mLfkiMw\/s320\/cut.jpg\" alt=\"\" id=\"BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5140155576342564738\" border=\"0\" \/><\/a><\/span><\/p>\n<p><\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\";font-family:Arial,sans-serif;font-size:100%;\"  ><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0in; font-style: normal;\"><span style=\"font-style: italic;\">Abrasion from the fall<\/span><\/p>\n<p><\/span><span style=\";font-family:Arial,sans-serif;font-size:100%;\"  ><br \/><\/span><\/div>\n<p><span style=\";font-family:Arial,sans-serif;font-size:100%;\"  ><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0in; font-style: normal;\"><span style=\"font-family:Arial,sans-serif;\">Whilst in the air, I saw another cliff and I panicked. The bike went down on a big stone, I was clutching to the handle for my dear life and crashed &#8230; I hit the ground. The bike flung aside and I was seated on my buttocks. Looking at the 10K worth of metal piece, I realized something very valuable. At times of emergency, you naturally forsaken even the most precious belonging to save yourself. Human instinct for survival. I sat on the ground and my elbow started bleeding, the nerves in my knees find its way to the spine, filling my body with a sharp unpleasant sensation. The soreness gave me meaning to my life. How I appreciated the fall, I didn&#8217;t break any bones. I am thankful. My \u201cbabysitter\u201d waited for me to regain my composure and then prompted me, \u201cAre you OK?\u201d. I looked up at him and I just smiled. <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0in; font-style: normal;\"><span style=\"font-family:Arial,sans-serif;\">The journey up and down the hill was a learning experience, one that is tiring but yet enjoyable. Reaching the tar road, I felt the wind gushed against my face. Flying free somewhat. Upon arriving at the cafe, I sat next to a female biker. In complete exasperation, I asked her \u201cIs this suppose to hurt that bad ?\u201d Shyly, she nodded and added \u201cWearing the right pants should soften the impact and riding a girl&#8217;s bike has better cushion\u201d. With much sympathy, she gave me a pat on my shoulder. Another sympathetic male rider shared his empathy as he parts his wife&#8217;s riding experience with me. Now, I truly understand why this sport does not entice females.<\/p>\n<p><\/span><\/p>\n<p><\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-family:Arial,sans-serif;\"><a onblur=\"try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}\" href=\"http:\/\/1.bp.blogspot.com\/_M3iNL0ShtgM\/R1WACVIkT3I\/AAAAAAAAArY\/atOX1zZgTxw\/s1600-h\/bruise.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" style=\"margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer;\" src=\"http:\/\/1.bp.blogspot.com\/_M3iNL0ShtgM\/R1WACVIkT3I\/AAAAAAAAArY\/atOX1zZgTxw\/s320\/bruise.jpg\" alt=\"\" id=\"BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5140155327234461554\" border=\"0\" \/><\/a><\/span><span style=\"font-size:100%;\"><span style=\"font-style: italic;\">bruising on both knees after fall<\/p>\n<p><\/span><span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"text-align: left;\"><span style=\"font-size:100%;\"><span>Will I have a second time in mountain biking ? To be honest, I&#8217;m not sure. I just have to wait and see. Till next time, I think I should allow some time for recovery. My first time, I never expect for it to hurt &#8230;that bad.<\/span><span style=\"font-style: italic;\">      <\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<p><span style=\"font-size:100%;\"><\/p>\n<p><\/span><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The first time always hurts. So, I was warned but little did I expect the pain would be so intense. It all started with an innocent question, \u201cSo, I hear you do mountain biking?\u201d I prompted an old acquaintance. 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