{"id":405,"date":"2008-01-29T11:19:00","date_gmt":"2008-01-29T11:19:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/laimayleng.com\/blog\/?p=405"},"modified":"2024-09-01T16:23:18","modified_gmt":"2024-09-01T08:23:18","slug":"i-dont-despair-about-youth-today","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.laimayleng.com\/blog\/i-dont-despair-about-youth-today\/","title":{"rendered":"I don&#8217;t despair about youth today"},"content":{"rendered":"<div style=\"text-align: center;\"><a onblur=\"try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}\" href=\"http:\/\/4.bp.blogspot.com\/_M3iNL0ShtgM\/R58Oxxor0hI\/AAAAAAAAAyk\/ebcuiFGDtzo\/s1600-h\/speaker.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" style=\"margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer;\" src=\"http:\/\/4.bp.blogspot.com\/_M3iNL0ShtgM\/R58Oxxor0hI\/AAAAAAAAAyk\/ebcuiFGDtzo\/s320\/speaker.jpg\" alt=\"\" id=\"BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5160859946290237970\" border=\"0\" \/><\/a><br \/><span style=\"font-size:85%;\">Speakers from left: Kenny Goh, Timothy Tiah, Kid Chan, Ng Khai Lee, Ganesh<\/p>\n<p><\/span><\/div>\n<p>With the current political condition and state of education system today, I often frown when I think of Malaysia in the future. Sometimes, I sink into a sunken grieve when my friends and I begin on the disquisition on the terrible state of the world with the timenorm. I wished I have brought those friends of mine to the Youth 08 Entrepreneur Convention.<\/p>\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\"><a onblur=\"try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}\" href=\"http:\/\/2.bp.blogspot.com\/_M3iNL0ShtgM\/R57Pbhor0fI\/AAAAAAAAAyU\/QeXLSi1-9QA\/s1600-h\/speaker2.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" style=\"margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer;\" src=\"http:\/\/2.bp.blogspot.com\/_M3iNL0ShtgM\/R57Pbhor0fI\/AAAAAAAAAyU\/QeXLSi1-9QA\/s320\/speaker2.jpg\" alt=\"\" id=\"BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5160790294805598706\" border=\"0\" \/><\/a><span style=\"font-style: italic;font-size:85%;\" ><br \/>Speakers from left: Oh Joo Nee, Mia Palencia, Kenny Sia, Kevin Zahri, Kid Chan<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p>Towards the end of the session, I find myself seated at the back of the convention hall. I gushed back after registering my name in the Nuffnang Traffic Jam party. Holding my little note book, a young girl came and sat next to me. Dressed in a pair of black slack and a crumpled shirt, she&#8217;s probably at most 22 years old. Ecstatically she  panted, &#8220;I just arrived. I was working and I probably missed the whole convention.&#8221; &#8221; Why do you bother to come at all&#8221; I heard my thought replying to her but I held my tongue. I acknowledged her attempt of small talk with merely a nod. The next thing she said caught me off guard as I never expected a stranger to ask of me. In fact, the last time I heard those words was probably 10 years ago !<\/p>\n<p><a onblur=\"try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}\" href=\"http:\/\/2.bp.blogspot.com\/_M3iNL0ShtgM\/R57z4hor0gI\/AAAAAAAAAyc\/ib7UKUD5u9w\/s1600-h\/notes.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" style=\"margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer;\" src=\"http:\/\/2.bp.blogspot.com\/_M3iNL0ShtgM\/R57z4hor0gI\/AAAAAAAAAyc\/ib7UKUD5u9w\/s320\/notes.jpg\" alt=\"\" id=\"BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5160830375440404994\" border=\"0\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Can I borrow your notes?&#8221; When she finished, I could hardly speak. This youth came all the way after work, despite missing almost all the speeches and yet she had this unspeakable courage to ask a complete stranger for notes ! Her quest for knowledge and thirst for information is truly commendable. I suppose my little note book gave the impression that I had recorded all the wise words of the speakers, where in actual fact the papers were merely a tool I used to draft out my blog post whenever I have inspiration to write. Not knowing that, she was poking her head and her nose in between the pages. My privacy was invaded. I showed her the page and she was not contented. She prompted further shooting me down with machine gun questions, &#8220;What are the steps? Did they list down the way to do it? What are the tips ? Any website I should go to ? &#8221; I was shot dead point blank.<\/p>\n<p>What a shock she gave me. First it was the &#8220;kiasu&#8221; student who pounces on my notes, then it was a hungry woman who wants to be spoon fed. I must say, I was somewhat disheartened that the expectation was set as such step-by-step on &#8220;How to become a successful entrepreneur&#8221; would be the highlight of the speeches. A remark made by another passing acquaintance during lunch, &#8220;Speakers didn&#8217;t really say much of how. I didn&#8217;t get much action points.&#8221; If this is what was expected, may I beckon to change your thoughts, as for my answer to the aspiring hungry woman, &#8220;The how is in the attitude. Passion, determination, persistence and hard work. There are many ways to get things done.&#8221; I was obviously not getting my point across, as her response was &#8220;So, no website ah ? Got ah ? &#8221; Trying hard not to roll my eyes I said, &#8220;Yes, there is. Start with &#8230;&#8221; Somewhat dissatisfied and disgruntled, she walked away.<\/p>\n<p>No, I don&#8217;t despair about the youth today.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Speakers from left: Kenny Goh, Timothy Tiah, Kid Chan, Ng Khai Lee, Ganesh With the current political condition and state of education system today, I often frown when I think of Malaysia in the future. 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