{"id":421,"date":"2008-02-18T16:49:00","date_gmt":"2008-02-18T16:49:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/laimayleng.com\/blog\/?p=421"},"modified":"2024-09-01T16:23:02","modified_gmt":"2024-09-01T08:23:02","slug":"swallow-please","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.laimayleng.com\/blog\/swallow-please\/","title":{"rendered":"Swallow Please"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>It was a quiet day for me. Many of my students are still away on festive holidays and some unfortunately have caught the bug. It was just the ten year old and I in the class. The room echoed with such emptiness, I could feel the breeze of the air-con mocking at me.<\/p>\n<p>After the short lesson, the little brown eyed boy, brimming in his square spectacles beamed at me with a smile. His gesture appeared to invite a conversation so I walked close to his desk and asked, &#8220;Any problem with the work?&#8221; &#8221; I don&#8217;t understand this word&#8221; the timid voice spoke. I nodded in acknowledgment and our eyes had an unspoken conversation. He then, took out his exercise book and wrote the word down, blinks his eyes, waiting for my assistance. I did what was required of me and the young boy continued his exercise.<\/p>\n<p>While waiting, I went through his list of vocabulary, the knowledge I imparted and found that he had not done his homework &#8211; use the dictionary at home and find the meaning of the words listed. I fancy I turned a trifle moody silence and it was noticeable. After an awkward pause, I could almost hear the chasing rhythm of his heart. Guilt clouded his face. It seemed an eternity before he built the courage to clarify his position, although I never ask of him. It wasn&#8217;t a reason I was hoping for but more the hidden agenda behind the task, to gauge if the child had the spoon feeding attitude.<\/p>\n<p>Trying to refrain from being philosophical to just a child,  I knew I failed to hold my tongue when I heard myself say, &#8220;Imagine this, your mother cooks for you, puts food on the table, feeds you, you still need to chew and swallow, right?&#8221; The boy looks at me dumbfounded, then nodded. &#8220;If you don&#8217;t swallow, is your mother gonna be the one being hungry ?&#8221; I continued. He shakes his head. &#8220;So, if teacher cooks you the word, put it in your mouth and you don&#8217;t do your part to chew and swallow, who is not learning, you or me?&#8221; outspokenly the words came out. I was wondering if I was making any sense on this metaphor. He looks down and looks back at me, his eyes sparkled for a brief moment as if the lesson just dawned upon him.&#8221;Do you want to learn?&#8221; the words struck again. He showed such confidence and replied, &#8220;Yes&#8221;. &#8220;Then, please swallow&#8221; the conversation ended and I walked back to my table.<\/p>\n<p>What a day for the poor boy.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It was a quiet day for me. Many of my students are still away on festive holidays and some unfortunately have caught the bug. It was just the ten year old and I in the class. The room echoed with such emptiness, I could feel the breeze of the air-con mocking at me. After the [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[5],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-421","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-all-in-a-days-work","et-doesnt-have-format-content","et_post_format-et-post-format-standard"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.laimayleng.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/421","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.laimayleng.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.laimayleng.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.laimayleng.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.laimayleng.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=421"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.laimayleng.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/421\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1357,"href":"https:\/\/www.laimayleng.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/421\/revisions\/1357"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.laimayleng.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=421"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.laimayleng.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=421"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.laimayleng.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=421"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}